Adding toys to your partnered sex can be such a game changer. The possibilities are really endless and there’s so many ways that pleasure products can enhance your coupled experience.
They can increase access to orgasm, give you an opportunity to experiment with novelty and excitement, and they can even help solve certain logistical issues you might experience as a couple.
To me, it’s a no brainer. Sex toys are amazing for couples of all kinds.
But it can be hard to know where to start. There are so many toys designed for couples, and so many different combinations you can create depending on anatomy, preferences, and your unique sexual relationship. So check out this list of some of my favorite toy options for couples below!
Pro tip: the more aware you are about your own body and your own pleasure, the easier toy shopping will be for couples! So I always suggest getting to know yourself sexually so you’re able to share that with your partner.
Satisfyer Teaser Finger Vibe
One of the easiest ways to start incorporating toys into your partnered experiences is a simple handheld vibrator. This kind of toy is really easy to maneuver and fit in between bodies, and it’s incredibly versatile. While most people think of using a vibrator on the clitoris during penetration - they can also be used for stimulation of the nipples, testicles, outside of the anus, and really any other erogenous zone you can think of. This finger vibe from Satisfyer is a really great way to start! It’s small and non-intimidating, so it could allow you to really begin to explore the sensation of vibration during your partnered sex.
If you’re trying to really spice some things up - a remote/app controlled toy might be the perfect way for you and your partner to heat up your relationship. This kind of toy is great for long-distance couples, couples interested in “public” play, or even couples looking to try something totally new. The Moxie by We-Vibe can be controlled by an app, no matter the distance between toy and phone. So whether you’re miles apart or across from each other at dinner, you can take control of the vibe sitting discreetly in your partner’s underwear. It clips in magnetically and is designed to sit on the outside of the vulva. We also carry their Tease Us set which comes with two Moxies - so you can pass control back and forth!
Another way to introduce sex toys into your partnered experiences is a strap on! Strap ons can give you the opportunity to experiment with power dynamics, penetration and more. You can get really creative. While a classic harness and dildo combo can be a great way to start, wearable strap ons like the Urge from Strap U can make the experience feel even more intimate! And this one even has the ability to be controlled with a remote, giving you even more freedom and flexibility in your play. Check this one out if you’re looking for a new way to experience penetration with your partner!
Ready to spice things up with your boo? Take it from me - if you don’t already have some couple-assigned toys in your repertoire, get one today! Shop from any of our locations or our extensive online inventory for the perfect toy for you and your lover. You’ll be glad you did.