How to Get Adventurous in the Bedroom Over the Holidays

by Jacee Niblett on November 30, 2021

While the holidays can be an exciting and fun time to reconnect with family, exchange gifts and practice gratitude for all the things we have - let's be honest, for adults the holidays can get hectic and STRESSFUL. We have to juggle our ongoing responsibilities on top of gift shopping, activities for the kids, decorating, cooking and cleaning for guests.. The list goes on! 


Adults deserve some fun and excitement in their lives during the holidays too! And that’s where we come in. 


I encourage you to add some adventure into your sex life this season - to switch things up, relieve some stress, and give yourself the freedom to play. Here are just a few ways you can achieve this:


IMPACT PLAY


Incorporating some impact play into the bedroom can be a great way to get adventurous! The heightened sensations can add so much to your experience, and allow you to mix in a little power play with your partner. If you’re decision-fatigued and like to mix in a little pain with your pleasure - have your partner take control with some impact to really drop into your body and out of your head.


PUMPS


Did you know that arousal has a lot to do with blood flow? Just like a penis gets erect, the clitoris also engorges with blood when aroused, and the more blood flow to that area of your body - the more sensitive that spot will be. Nipple/clitoral pumps are a fun way to add some sensitivity to these areas, so they feel a little more spicy when you play. Try one out to switch things up and experience even more sensations!


SHOCK PLAY


For our extra adventurous customers, check out the Neon Wand to take sensation play to the next level. The neon wand uses electric shock to stimulate your skin - and it comes with a bunch of different attachments so you have so many ways to play. Run the comb along your arm, or use the small tip for pinpoint sensation. It’s the perfect way to get creative with shock play!


ANAL PLAY


While anal sex is completely natural and normal for all of us, for some it can feel extra exciting and adventurous if it’s not in your normal routine. Try this kit that has everything you need (minus the lube) for an extraordinary time. It even includes a bullet vibrator for added sensation. Get adventurous and explore a new part of your body that is packed with nerve endings! And check out our Beginner’s Guide to Butt Stuff for more information on how to play safe. 


SENSUAL MASSAGE


If all of these options sound just a little too out there for your liking, a sensual massage might be the perfect way to spice things up and relieve the stress of this holiday season. Massage candles set the mood, ignite your sense of smell, and melt into the perfect massage oil to use on your partner. Rather than getting kinky or moving into anal penetration, maybe stimulating all of your senses, and experiencing a sexy and relaxing massage is the right option for you!



It’s the season of gift giving, and we definitely have you covered this year. Stop in for all your gift needs, but don’t forget to treat yourself while you’re at it. You deserve the fun and adventure you’re always trying to give to others!

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