There is so much variety when it comes to sex toys. And there’s not just diversity in the toys themselves, but even more diversity in how you can use each toy! Adding sex toys to your solo sex gives you the opportunity to fully experiment and diversify your sexual experiences. Try using your clitoral vibrator on your nipples, try a rabbit toy for dual stimulation, or add a butt plug to your penetrative solo sex. There’s so much to explore, and when you are by yourself sometimes it can feel easier to take “risks” and be playful without the presence of someone else in the room.

I’ve talked before on this blog about how sex toys often increase our access to pleasure. Especially for vulva-owners, things like vibrators and suction toys are often the most reliable source of orgasm. And when pleasure is easily accessed, there’s less stress and more curiosity. Using toys on your self-love journey can give you a beautiful opportunity to further connect with your sexual being. Find out what you like, explore your turn-ons and your hard no’s. Connect with the sexual part of yourself, and have more fulfilling and satisfying sexual experiences going forward in your life.