How Toys Can Assist Your Self-Love Journey

by Jacee Niblett - September 19, 2023

Are you on a self-love journey? We all know that there are these important phases that occur in our lives where we decide to focus on ourselves more - and not in a selfish way, but in a way that empowers us to show up more fully ourselves to the world and the people around us.

I’m a firm believer that a self-love journey benefits the relationships in our lives just as much as it benefits us as individuals.

And when it comes to sex, it’s especially important to get to know ourselves, play, experiment and build a healthy sexual relationship with ourselves!

While this is very unique to every individual, I also believe that sex toys can aid and assist in some really beautiful ways. So, here is just how using toys can help your self-love journey, no matter how it looks on the outside.

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An Opportunity to Explore

There is so much variety when it comes to sex toys. And there’s not just diversity in the toys themselves, but even more diversity in how you can use each toy! Adding sex toys to your solo sex gives you the opportunity to fully experiment and diversify your sexual experiences. Try using your clitoral vibrator on your nipples, try a rabbit toy for dual stimulation, or add a butt plug to your penetrative solo sex. There’s so much to explore, and when you are by yourself sometimes it can feel easier to take “risks” and be playful without the presence of someone else in the room.

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Be Selfish and Don’t Feel Bad About It

If you’re on a self-love journey, “selfishness” is potentially something you are grappling with. Self-love isn’t about being inconsiderate of others, but rather more considerate of yourself than you have been in the past. If you’re someone who has historically paid a lot of attention to the sexual needs of your partner, this might be the perfect time to give yourself that same attention. Using toys for your solo sex can feel indulgent. Buying a luxury sex product for yourself, or even buying a toy for the first time can feel selfish - and I hope your self-love journey teaches you that you deserve it!

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Connect with Your Sexuality

I’ve talked before on this blog about how sex toys often increase our access to pleasure. Especially for vulva-owners, things like vibrators and suction toys are often the most reliable source of orgasm. And when pleasure is easily accessed, there’s less stress and more curiosity. Using toys on your self-love journey can give you a beautiful opportunity to further connect with your sexual being. Find out what you like, explore your turn-ons and your hard no’s. Connect with the sexual part of yourself, and have more fulfilling and satisfying sexual experiences going forward in your life.

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