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Sensory Play 101: How to Use Feather Ticklers, Wartenberg Wheels, and More

If you’ve ever stepped foot in an Excitement Adult store, you probably recognize the CalExotics brand. They’re some of our favorites, and they offer such a wide range of options in almost every category of sex toys.

When shopping CalExotics, you’re sure to find something that works for you.

We love them partly because they are affordable without sacrificing quality - but also because they offer some really innovative and unique options!

So if you’re looking for something a little different, check out some of these picks.

Sportsheets Ostrich Feather Tickler

Starting out with something small and non-intimidating can be a great way to dip your toes into a new sexual experience. Feather ticklers are one of the best toys to achieve this!

While on the surface it might look simple or even boring, this gorgeous feather attached to a long handle allows you and a partner to explore a wide range of sensations. It can feel different depending on speed, but also depending on where on the body you are moving the tool.

It’s also soft and inviting, which can help you feel relaxed and more in tune with the present sensations you are experiencing. So try a feather tickler if you want to start small and simple - but be ready to find a new avenue toward pleasure!

Master Series Odax Sensation Wheel

This little spiky wheel is one of my absolute favorite tools to have in my nightstand. Don’t let the intimidating look get to you - it’s actually a fabulous method of sensory stimulation.

The hands that hold the sensory wheel have total control over the amount of pressure used, which translates to varying degrees of sensation. It can range from a tickle to a poke to a full scratch. And again, using it on different parts of the body can yield wildly different results.

I love pairing this with a blindfold to heighten sensation and add just a touch of power play to the dynamic. The receiver won’t know where the giver will run the wheel next and the surprise element adds a fun touch. There are so many different ways you can play with this tiny little tool so if you’re keen on exploring, give this one a go!

Master Series Flame Drippers Drip Candle Set

Playing with temperature is such a fun way to explore your senses - albeit one that requires a bit more care and attention. You can use glass toys to achieve cold or hot temps, ice cubes or even warming dildos.

But drip candles add a certain ambiance to the room, and offer you a chance to heat up your body.

These candles from Master Series are made with a wax formula formulated for easy melting and dripping so you’re able to carefully drip the hot wax over your body. This is higher intensity sensation play so take care and remember to practice safely - but if you’re down for this kind of fun add drip candles to your repertoire!

Sensory play is a beautiful way to expand your sexual experiences by tuning into the sensations, pleasure, and most importantly - the present moment. The ability to be fully present during sex is foundational to satisfying, meaningful and fulfilling sexual connections.

Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to explore sensory play. The tools and tips we’ve discussed are just starting points. What matters most is how the experience feels to you. Take your time, stay curious, and allow yourself the freedom to experiment. It’s all about staying present and letting pleasure be your guide.

Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just starting out, sensory play offers a playful, mindful approach to intimacy that can bring fresh energy into your sexual experiences. I hope these ideas inspire you to get creative and have fun!